Being "Mom/Mum/Mother"

"We need to talk about Kevin" by Lionel Shriver is one of the most confronting books I have read in a long time. I stumbled across this courtesy of my daughter and I read it in one sitting. Gripping stuff. I am not going to wax lyrical about how easy it is for mass shootings… Continue reading Being "Mom/Mum/Mother"

Being at peace

Quick note, I am working on a post a day. So please be patient with me 🙂 As you are all aware, R and I are poly. Now many people do not understand this, and generally take it down to the common denominator which is that we have an open relationship. This is true with… Continue reading Being at peace

Thank you 2018

In all likelihood, this will be my last post for 2018.  It's the crazy season and there won't be time for blogging. I wanted to say "thank you" to my friends, family, colleagues and acquaintances for the year that was 2018.  Thank you for the laughter, the joy, sharing each others lives.  Thank you for… Continue reading Thank you 2018

Minefield

Ah the minefield that is a relationship.   We note the little danger sign, but man that view is amazing, and (to mix metaphors) it is such arable land.  We see so much potential, so much possibility, that we blithely continue.  For the really crazy - cue me - we do this in multiples.  Hey!  Two… Continue reading Minefield